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You are out with some friends, maybe at a great new lounge. On your way to the bar, you notice a woman with extra-special beauty laughing with her friends. She has that look of beauty that is rare, but is breathtaking. You want to meet her, but how?

It might surprise you to hear that the very attractive women out there are often the easiest to approach. Most women of great beauty are so intimidating to men, that the best a guy can do is pick his jaw up off the floor and keep walking. Truthfully, extraordinary beauty strikes the fear of God in many men.

So, if you want to learn how to approach and attract very beautiful women, the most important thing to remember is.relax.

A few years ago, I worked up the nerve to approach a very famous supermodel (who shall remain nameless). I was terrified upon approaching, but forced myself to do it because I knew it would help me build my confidence.

What surprised me was how open she was to having a conversation. She was friendly, humorous and engaging. The interaction ended when her thug-bodyguard ran me offbut I was so surprised how easy she was to talk to. Interesting, right?

What my friends and I realized later was that women of great beauty are rarely approached by men. The women hardest to meet are, in fact, those that are a bit below the supermodel level - call them an “8″ or a “9″ (rating scales are crude, so forgive me). They are less intimidating, and therefore more approachable by men.

They are the ones who will often throw tests at you as fast as a Roger Clemens fastball. Why? They have had to learn how to deal with men trying to pick them up a lot, and have developed an arsenal to defend themselves from guys only interested in their bodies.

However, the “10″s of the world are already so fearsome to men, that they tend to get off slightly easier. Of course, they have challenges in different ways, but for now I encourage you to go for it and approach them.

When (and if) you do, be sure not to fawn over their beauty or even remark that they are attractive. This will instantly blow it for you, as you become one of the many who are not able to get past their looks. Instead, ask her something like this:

“Excuse me - I need female input on a debate my friends and I are having - maybe you can help. In a relationship, what is more important to women - romance or adventure?”

Presto - ask her this and she won’t think you are talking to her because she is so gorgeous, but because she is nearby and female. Plus, it is an interesting topic - women love talking about relationships. From there, just engage her in playful conversation, and then lead her into a more personal conversation.
If you asked an extremely attractive woman what is it that most upsets her about her beauty, it would probably be that people see her as a hot body, rather than as a person.

So, remember - relax - and go for it. And when you do, be sure to talk to the person and not the body! Ask her questions, chit chat with her, tell her funny stories, probe her opinions on subjects. Be interested in what she is saying rather than her amazing figure.

Good luck! And, if you do approach a “10″ today, pat yourself on the back my friend. You just joined the smallest group of men on earththose willing to go for what they really want and deserve out of life!

Stephen Nash

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Stephen Nash of Cutting Edge Image Consulting (CEIC) is author of the book How to Get A Girlfriend: The Seven Essential Skills for Attracting the Woman of Your Dreams and Natural Attraction, 7 CD Audio course on image enhancement and dating for men. He teaches how to become a man that’s magnetically attractive to women of exceptional quality and how to build positive and healthy relationships through charisma and self-image enhancement.

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Finding just the right match for romance in today’s fast-paced world can seem almost impossible. The bar scene doesn’t often work. Church isn’t for everyone. And grocery store produce aisle pick-ups are kind of creepy. For many the answer has become online dating services and the results are pretty amazing. Successes are reported every day whether the goal was finding a new friend or a spouse.

While it used to be that successful matches made online, the ones where marriage resulted, were the things of headlines and tabloids, that’s not the case these days where more and more people are meeting online, forming fast friendships and then turning those connections romances that work.

The services available online can and do work, but they aren’t for everyone. Careful consideration should come in before signing up. And if you do sign up, be honest about yourself, interests and even appearance for a better chance at finding the right match.

Despite the success stories, however, there are a lot of stigmas associated with online dating. All and all, they’re not very fair. After all, since we’re now in a “one world” situation where boundaries between countries are blurred by the Internet, finding lots of interesting people online from all over the world is more than possible.

Dating services online can really help cut down on some of the problems associated with finding the right match for a simple date or even a long-term commitment. By matching personalities, likes, dislikes and so on, these services can “cut out” some of the trouble that goes along with regular dating.

The secret behind most of these services is to compare the personality profiles of clients, match interests and line up folks from the same geographic area for potential dates. Once possible matches are made, many services allow, and in fact encourage, clients to first get to know each other online by corresponding or talking in instant messages or via a phone. This helps establish whether a bond is present or if another candidate should be checked out.

Cutting down on the hassle of dating, these services can prove incredibly successful in pairing up people of like minds. While it’s true opposites attract, a lot of long-term successful relationships are forged through commonalities.

If you’ve decided to go the online service route, chances are you’ll enjoy the experience. But, remember, it’s a good idea to be careful when actually meeting your match. Good safety precautions are in order whether a person’s date is met online, in a bar or even at church.

Before heading out on that first date, consider doing the following things:

* Insist on meeting in a public place. This is for your security and your date’s, plus it can help take some of the edge off a first-date situation.

* Make sure someone you know is told where you are going.

* Get the person’s full name. Pass this along to the person you’ve told about the date.

* If you don’t feel comfortable on the date, say so politely and move on.

While online dating is great for matching people, precautions should be taken in actually meeting matches. With a little common sense and some diligence, an honest to goodness match can be found. There may even be a soul mate out there in cyber space.

Remember when using online dating services that these generally match people and personalities. This doesn’t mean a computer can ensure “chemistry.” Be prepared for a few strikeouts and consider the experience as a fun exploration, not a last-ditch effort.

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In the course of my interactions while researching the romance scams, a 45 year old grandmother, told me of her dating troubles and how she was scammed of well over $3000.
Her husband passed on a few years ago, and she had been living in a big house all alone.
She had tried online and offline dating, with nothing to show so far.
According to her, she was very lonely and needed someone to talk to heart to heart.
She said that even in the midst of friends, family and other relatives, she felt a deep void in her life, and she needed her own man to share her life with.

Given her status as a widow, she felt that the online dating scene would give her some measure of anonymity, while at the same time serving the purpose of bringing her in touch with the right man that she wanted.
That was why she signed up with an online dating service. Some months later, she had lost some thousands of dollars to a scammer.

But even with the fact that she was scammed, she has still been actively looking for a mate. According to her, she is lonely, and she would do anything to solve that problem.
So, she has continued with her search for a partner online.

Now, hers was not the only case I came across. I know of quite some women, who got into the online dating scene because of loneliness.
For most of them, they preferred to date any available person, provided he could giver them the attention they so craved, than live alone by themselves.

For example, a lady, who is 44 years old, and with 3 kids, is insisting on dating a guy who is half her age, all in the name of curing her loneliness. She has persistently refused to yield to appeals to reconsider her stance.
To her, she is no longer lonely, and that is all that matters.

Many women are in similar shoes, although the situations and persons involved may vary. All the same, it appears that loneliness is a key factor that is driving many thousands of people into the online dating scene.

And this loneliness factor is one of the emotional needs of people looking for dates online, that scammers prey upon to operate successfully.
They do all that they can to give maximum attention to their targets, and go the extra mile to attend to them.
They send flowers, clothes, chocolates and other gift items on ordinary days, and on special days too.
As a lady put it to me, given that most of her family and friends hardly remembered her even on her birthday to send gifts or call her, getting such overwhelming attention from a man she met online in this manner, even if he was largely unknown to her, meant a lot to her.
It made her feel much needed and wanted again, after her recent divorce.
The problem of loneliness has caused many men and women in the United States and other Western Countries to lose millions of dollars monthly to dating scams. And the scams are still going on up till this moment.

The best way to deal with the scams is to educate yourself about it so that you can prevent it from happening to you or your loved ones.
If you are still faced with the problem of loneliness and you wish to get a partner through Internet dating, then you need to know how to solve that problem, and how to meet the right persons online.

Alan Prince is a researcher and expert on the issue of dating and romance scams. Lessons from his interaction with many victims of the scams and the scammers themselves, along with detailed information on how to prevent the scams,are available at http://www.elovedeceptions.com. Sign up to get a free e-book from him at http://www.elovedeceptions.com/book gift

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