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Giving below some of the Alpha Men of our times, who have set examples for us to follow. Choose your role model:

1. James Bond - No, he is not a hackneyed name. He is a true Alpha Man and we can really learn how to be an Alpha Man by studying any or all the stars that have played Bond over the years. Each one of them have carried their own brand of charisma, physical appearance, glances, presence, style of delivery of speech and most importantly none of them ever appeared “desperate” for women.

If you recall, in all movies, Bond is initially rejected and resisted by women, who think him to be a quintessential glib-talker and a professional Player. But ultimately it is his supreme confidence and die-hard stance that get him all that a man desires, women and government secrets!

2. Mel Gibson - Whatever your personal views are about this man, it is undeniable that he has left behind the mark of a true Alpha Man. From the enticing charm displayed in Lethal Weapon, to his body beautiful in Braveheart and Maverick, to the tall, strong and silent strength in The Road Warrior, you can not help but admire him. Also important to note is his typical alpha trait of hard-core aggression and initiative: he gets his movies made!

3. Richard Burton - A man who redefined style and manhood in totality. Hard to find another man who can add so much rugged, earthy style to such ordinary, everyday activity like smoking and drinking. And talk of feminine attracting charm - his eyes talked! I remember reading a photo essay of him next to his Lady Love Elizabeth Taylor. The photo caption read: “exuded complete, utter manliness”. I could not agree with it more. What I call a complete man, see “Where Eagles Dare” to get a glimpse of the way he carried himself.

4. Abraham Lincoln - If you ever feel disheartened by failure, pick up an autobiography of this great man. He met several failures and turned each one into an opportunity till he became one of the greatest statesmen America has ever had. His stand on honesty and strength of character, is a lesson for all of us. And when it comes to women, he proves that the most deplorable one also gets laid.

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Did you know that the level of interest and attraction which a woman feels for you is inversely proportionate to the rate of your availability? Amazing but true, women do NOT want a man to be AVAILABLE at her beck and call. She calls and you answer the phone all the time. What impression does she get? That you don’t have anything to do but to answer phones! Here a little pretension helps. Even if you don’t have anything to do, pretend you are busy, pretend you have thousand appointments, and pretend you are racing against time. Remember the rarest species of cats are photographed and talked about - not the pet in your backyard.

Here are some general principles of availability:

Make sure you are available ONLY TWICE A WEEK to meet up with her. If timings clash, sorry, wait till next week. If she is genuinely interested in meeting you, she will change her own schedules

Use the voice mail more often when you are dating. You leave her guessing and hankering for more of you.

Don’t be near your phone on Friday or Saturday nights. What a useless man you are, you should be at the most exclusive pub or rollicking with your “numerous” other friends that evening.

Play hard to get and forgetful when it comes to returning her calls. Otherwise you give the impression; yeah I was just waiting for your call baby.

During the very initial days of dating, speak to her only on the phone and that too basically to fix up the next meeting date. If she prefers to prolong the conversation, you politely ease out, promising to catch up with her, when you actually meet.

Make 90 minutes your Cinderella hour. Never give her the impression that you really don’t have much to do before or after that slot. If indeed you don’t have anything to do, take a stroll, go for a movie alone, but limit your meeting time to just 90 minutes. Of course you can be flexible, if the date hits a high note and you both are truly enjoying yourselves. Choice is yours.

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There is a major part of dating, which at times we overlook - Romance on the Rebound. If your immediate past relationship was a short-lived one, I can presume that you will take a short time to get over it. But if unfortunately, the relationship was long and trusted, it is understandable that you will take even longer to truly get over it and start life afresh.

The point I am trying to make here is that you must give yourself adequate time to recharge and recuperate. The best way to assess when to start afresh, is perhaps listen closely to your heart. If you are still feeling forlorn, perhaps it is not the right moment to begin. If you hate the whole idea of starting the dating game all over again, sorry, your time is not right yet.

You wait for that same “spark” that triggers, that same “chemistry” that starts it all. Now you are more mature - you are aware that if there is happiness, there ought to be a little pain too, but you are prepared to go through the drill all over again. Somewhat like when you have taken a break and yearn to go back to work.

Relax, don’t get overworked about it. Take your own time. Get busy with things that take your mind completely off such issues. Like cowboy movies, snowboarding, sweating it out at the gym and the like. What you are doing here is “recharge” and “rejuvenate” your batteries. Look at the players in any game; they take a break during the game. Same applies to you.

Remember one golden rule: the chances of meeting the woman who is nearly heaven-sent, someone who has a marriageable prospect and with whom you can have a mutually viable, supportive, caring and stimulating life - in other words, the chosen one, is one in a million!

No kidding, but the woman who you decide to spend the rest of your life with, will be difficult to come by and it takes quite a while to find her.

Unfortunately a lot of women are shallow with hardly any grey matter, whose minds closed a long time ago or never opened in the first place, and big disappointments - be prepared to come across them, as they are available aplenty! Remember, success in life depends a lot on the timing - meeting the right person at the right time. The reality however is that the right woman is mostly available at the wrong place at the wrong time and mostly with the wrong guy!

There are equal numbers of men and women who lament over not meeting Mr Right or Miss Right all because of timing. Also, if your Wish List is long as to what you need from your long-term partner, the chances are that you will require equally long time to find her.

So what is the good side of the story? Well, all this means that you will be a very rich man in the end, rich in experience about women and how to follow the path that brings you joy and lasting happiness. And if you are true to your self and decide not to become a martyr in the process of having a relationship with a woman, you will surely emerge a winner. Remember, at the end of the day, there are so many (amazing) women, and yet so little time!

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